Lessons from the Privy
Monday, May 28th, 2007As a professional public speaker, motivator, and consultant my thirty years in public education provide me with an abundance of stories and lessons learned. One that comes to mind is when I was principal of a middle school. I had two fifth grade boys who liked to mess up the boys’ bathroom in many different ways. Of course, doing that kind of thing is too good to keep to oneself so before long these two fellows were telling everyone about their antics. While having lunch with some students I was told the story of the unsanitary things these boys were doing. When I spoke with the boys separately, each replied when asked why they did it, “I don’t know”; at which time I replied, “well if you did know, what would the reason be?”. The truth came out! I called the parents to inform them what their children had been up to and asked the parents support and permission to keep their sons after school for two or three afternoons working with the custodians cleaning the bathrooms. One parent was very supportive and his son learned a valuable lesson about responsibility and public property. The other parent told me in no uncertain terms was I to have his son cleaning any bathrooms! Needless to say, different lessons learned. Our decisions and choices really do make us who we are!